4 Things To Remember This Valentine’s Day

Valentines Day. A day that evokes all sorts of feelings – many of which are negative. People feel stressed, under pressure, sad, lonely, anxious, depressed. But it doesn’t have to be like that. Which is why I’m sharing some of these key mindsets which will help you get through this week and Valentine’s Day with…

5 Biggest Dating Mistakes

Mistakes are only mistakes if we don’t learn from them. So here I am, sharing with you my 5 biggest, baddest dating mistakes. Over-texting Expecting chemistry Relying on others Thinking you’re not sexy Getting drunk on a date (a hypocritical one) I have made all of these mistakes through trial and error over the years….

The Awkward English Student

I thought he seemed cute from the picture – he had a nice smile. He was also a few years younger than me at 23 (I’m 26). But I didn’t want to be ageist, so I swiped right. I was a bit bored in my apartment, having spent a few hours working on my site…

Letter To A Slut

Dear Slut, I am writing a letter to you, because you’re quite a controversial person in society these days. I mean, you’ve always been. We all think you’re something different. Some would say that you and me have quite a bit in common. So I asked a bunch of people what they think you are and…

Dating In Palermo: The Anti-Italian

The Anti-Italian took the stereotypical picture of romantic Italian guys out of my head and threw it out, into the open bins on my street in Palermo. After my date with The Poetic Doctor, I suspected that all Italian stallions would call me ‘Bella’, comment inexhaustibly on my eyes, ears and nose and of course,…

21 Bad Dating Habits To Ditch In 2018

Bad dating habits are the little things and signs we send that can fuck up a perfectly good date. A great New Year’s Resolution for 2018 would be to be aware of these things and stick a big red light in your head saying STOP when you find yourself doing them. Here are some bad…

Dating In Palermo: The Poetic Doctor

The Poetic Doctor was the typical tall, dark and handsome combo you’d expect from an Italian. He also seemed pretty straightforward in his messages, unlike some other guys – seriously, check out ‘5 Ways To Make An Italian Stallion Tinder Profile’ to see some of the romantic accolades I was getting. So he seemed un-threatening…

15 Christmas Date Ideas For Tinder

Christmas. The time to feel warm, festive and do loads of romantic shit. Wherever you are in the world, you can’t escape from the fact that Christmas is a time to be loved. Consequently, loads of Christmas date ideas out there, like buying Christmas presents for your family together or making a gingerbread house together are…

Ghosting Sucks: 20 Texts To Send Instead

Ghosting: The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date – Urban Dictionary. Have you ever been ghosted? I have. Loads of times. Once I went to a house party, had a great night, met this nice guy who seemed super into me and gave…

5 Ways To Make An Italian Stallion Tinder Profile

Last month, I was in Palermo, Sicily. After I unpacked, I idly started swiping on my Tinder (as you do). I expected to be humoured by the usual barrage of men refusing to show their faces, taking pictures in dark rooms or even brandishing knives and writhing naked in clay. If you don’t think this…